THIS IS NOT WRITTEN NON-EDITED BY ESABOD, BUT FOUND IT ON FACEBOOK
PEACE SHOULD MEAN PEACE
There have been several people previously involved in the Facebook fracas who have absolved themselves of any brouhaha. They neither share nor comment on anyone’s page to avoid mischief-makers using them as opportunity to cause mayhem on Facebook.
To comment on recent developments, how can people really want peace when they are reckless with their comments and/or continue to abuse others who are not even aware of their existence? What is actually wrong with Yoruba people? Some people just derive joy in running others down. The fact is majority of people are looking for cheap fame at the expense of others, another set of people are low-lifers – they are miserable and even suffer from a variety of mental disorders – bipolar, grandeur delusions, exhibitionism, schizophrenia, etc. Unfortunately, Africans will only consider a naked individual on the street as being mad. Sadly, some of the people involved in the Facebook fracas are mentally deranged, lonely and have low self-esteem.
Esabod (3 years to 60) – Esther Tokunbo Aboderin
As severally stated, Esabod may be a semi-illiterate but certainly has native intelligence! She is a very smart woman who can hardly part with her money. Hence the reason she was able to disgrace her ‘Baba Ijo’ – aka Temidayo Ibimidun. People think because Esabod is eccentric, it is easy to scam her. How wrong they are! She believes so much in transparency and accountability. Temidayo was not spared her tongue-lashing because he failed to adhere to her modus operandi. Temidayo might not wish to scam Esabod but he certainly lacked probity. Why wait until he was publicly disgraced before he made account of contributions from the Omo Ewe team? Why publicly reveal names of committee members for Esabod’s party? The height of betrayal!!! He clearly wanted to ridicule Esabod and got his just desserts!
Why would Temidayo have a cabal within Esabod’s group by trusting only Omotara Fajemisin? For Omotara to be involved in the Facebook mess is mind-boggling. This is someone with a good pedigree behaving like a social miscreant.
Her reason for her involvement in the Facebook brouhaha can be attributed to attention-seeking and she suffered the same fate with Helen Gbemi Ogundimu (albeit Omotara was not accused of theft). Temidayo has done himself no favours by continuously having senseless live chats, which might impact negatively on his business. If he has any sense, he should just crawl back quietly from where he came. Same with Omotara. Although Omotara meant well by supporting Esabod, she should just extricate herself from the ugly Facebook fight and concentrate on her life and skincare business.
Temidayo, should concentrate on his photography business and not cheapen his brand.
Back to Esabod, she simply will not just act her age. Therefore, the younger ones will continue to hurl insults at her. The saddest aspect is that her fixation with her ex-partner, Gadaffy (aka Niyi Oyewole), has made it so easy for her haters to abuse her children who obviously should not be involved in all of these fracas. Likewise the haters’ children. However, Gadaffy has been so stupid for allowing the AJ team to abuse his children as a way of attacking Esabod. Those children should be off limits. Gadaffy made an unpalatable comment about Funmi Aboderin – Esabod’s older sister – that she does not have a womb!!!! How low can one get? Yes, Gadaffy has endured a lot of abuse from Esabod, but for his children’s sake, he should learn to ignore her and warn the AJ team to exclude his children from the Facebook fracas. Jack Cedric, an AJ member during one of her live chats, made a point of this when abusing Esabod. She refused to abuse her children. One cannot be fighting bullies and then behave in the same manner!
Esabod does not seem to know that defaming people (with fabricated news ) is NOT blogging! It is a shame that she cannot concentrate on entertaining people and her spiritual talents. Wish she could take the advice she said she has learned from Bimpe Amadi (aka Yeye Oge toh glamorous) when she attended her party last night. She should learn to IGNORE and not engage in further defamation. She has now been assaulted by Abike, Helen and other cohorts. Esabod should realise this is the third time she has been assaulted, the first being from her ex-partner, Gadaffy in Ireland when she was unlawfully recording him. Secondly, it was Dor Dor in London. The fourth incident might just be very dangerous for Easbod. Time to take stock of her behaviour and realise that her followers are probably not genuine as they should have been able to restrain Abike from getting close to her. Her so-called followers are at best, VIEWERS!
Lesson for Yeye Oge is that there is a law of karma. Last year, prior to Abike’s party, she had a live chat in which she talked about people attending diabolically organised parties where their destinies could be swapped. She was obviously discouraging people not to attend Abike’s party which turned into a flop as Esabod’s followers threatened to disrupt the party that the venue had to be changed. Yeye Oge, focus on your live chats and skin care business without getting involved in the fracas.
Abike Tolulope Basirat Adeoye (aka Jagaban, AJ)
If truly Abike wants peace and believe her mantra of being the ‘Voice for the Voiceless’, she should refrain from all her diatribe towards Esabod, Dor Dor and other people she perceives as her enemies. Especially when she has made it clear that both Esabod and Dor Dor have mental disorders. This is a classic case of one running after a naked mad man. Passers-by would begin to look at the madman and the person running after him as having the same problem. AJ should learn to ignore and focus on her initiative. She should use her talents POSITIVELY. She is NOT in any way motivating anyone with her endless abuse even though she is responding to her haters. She will at some point disengage herself from some of her members who enjoy abuse on Facebook 24-7. It is certainly not good for her image. She should watch out, as there will be more betrayals in her team especially when she tells them she wants them to align with her new concept. AJ should use talents of Oosha, Ajani Roberts, Yetty Creamberry Akinsola, Richard Olalekan and other well-meaning members whose intentions are far more than ranting on Facebook, to her advantage. Hanging out with Helen Gbemi Ogundimu will not help her image who seizes every opportunity to act like a juvenile delinquent.
With the recent development of last night, what Abike did at Yeye Oge’s party assaulting Esabod, was a TOTAL DISGRACE! Despicable act and uncalled for! There is law in the United Kingdom. The fact is that Abike and her cohorts were trespassers and could be prosecuted if anyone at the party wishes to sue for assault or trespass and for disturbing the peace of the neighbourhood. None of the uninvited guests had any right to attend the party and disrupt it – all because of defamatory statements made by Esabod. They could have waited for Esabod outside the building when she was not within the confines of a private premises, if they so desired to beat her. However, they could still be sued either way. The question for Abike is – is the AJ team really fighting bullies?
Oosha (Edijanah Abidemi John)
Matured individual and Aj’s ever so competent and eloquent Manager. As a human being, she errs at times by letting down her guard when she responds to her haters, the main one being Dor Dor who should be perpetually ignored. Oosha is full of wisdom. She should maintain the path of giving advice and supporting the AJ team in achieving their mission – Helping Hands initiative, amongst others. Her advice in her recent chat about Soji Olowogbogboro (Igbehinadun) was superb that team members should understand his wish to disengage with the AJ team. She and AJ should begin to sift the wheat from the shaft. Whoever is not sharing the vision or CONTRIBUTING POSITIVELY in rebranding the AJ team, should opt out and stand on their own, should they wish to continue their expletives. There is a fine line between fighting bullying and actually turning into a bully in the process.
To all intents and purposes, a time would come when Oosha will step away from the team when she realises that some people in the team have uncontrollable urge to continue fighting and the rebranding would be too much of a challenge.
Dor Dor (Dorcas Adeyinka, Dorcas Adisa)
This is a very disturbed individual who has turned into a troll (cyber stalker). She is a confirmed bully. As previously advised, AJ should be very careful of her because if they meet physically, there is a danger of her attacking AJ. She would use the defence of diminished responsibility (loss of self-control) in court, particularly if she is on medication. Dor Dor should be totally ignored, irrespective of what she says. Her ranting does not deserve a response. A recent chat where she calls Ramota, a special needs individual, is evident that Dor Dor is mad. She tried as much as possible to ensure the woman abused AJ by making her say that she (Ramota) did not want to be fighting on Facebook like AJ. Dor Dor is not called ‘Esu of London’ (by Pause & Ponder) for nothing. Yet, she is still under 35. A comical aspect of the conversation with Ramota was when she continued responding to Dor Dor by saying ‘yes sir’. Dor Dor severally corrected her by saying ‘yes ma’ indicating that she is female. Of course, with Dor Dor’s gravel voice, Ramota should be forgiven for thinking that Dor Dor is a man! Dor Dor is obviously younger than Ramota. What a total disrespect to Ramota. One wonders how Dor Dor was nurtured by her mother. Even if she was in foster care, it is obvious the foster mother had been to hell and back during the time Dor Dor was in her care. The height of betrayal is Dor Dor supporting Esabod to fight AJ. What a disgrace Dor Dor has become an embarrassment to her birth mother. Not surprised that Dor Dor was not at Yeye Oge’s party. She could be the youngest amongst the miscreants on Facebook but certainly the smartest out of them all. She knew she would not attend the party. Neither is she going to attend Esabod’s party scheduled next month, in Ireland. Strangely enough, those much older than Dor Dor called in to her live chat to report the incident with Abike. Could the so-called Ewe nation members not restrain Abike or called the Police? Perhaps, because majority had no right of stay in the United Kingdom. There is a belief that Dor Dor must have arranged all these on purpose as a payback for Esabod’s abuse of her mother. As damage limitation and to cast off any suspicion about her (Dor Dor) evil intentions, she feigned sympathy for Esabod during her live chats. Esabod, the wise one probably suspected but did not want to make a public statement. However, Esabod mentioned the quality of the services rendered by the bodyguard – that alone spoke volumes. Everyone is watching how long the partnership between Esabod and Dor would last. Esabod.
Bukky Oluwabukola Jesse
Nice to know that Bukky has now found peace within herself. She needs to know how to dress in a lady-like manner. Dressing half-clad (bordering on ‘lady of the night’ mode of dressing’) to church on Sundays is bewildering. Why are the Shepherds (Olushos) always looking the other way with her breasts almost popping out of her tops? It is very welcome the apology Bukky made on her recent live chat although one can sense a bit of sarcasm. Evidently, apologies with reservations – at least, a first step. It is nice to know that she always promotes other women’s businesses. However, she needs to be very careful when it comes to food and skincare product. Reason being that Abimbola Sonde, self-acclaimed CEO of CQ Beauty products, whom she once promoted her products, has been known to use voodoo in her creams. People who have challenged her regarding contents of her products have been subjected to threats and abuse. A team is under way to test skincare products sold on Facebook as some of them contain dangerous substances harmful to the skin. Back to Bukky, she should be thanked for bringing Genesis Global to the Nigerian Community on Facebook.
Soji Olowoyo (aka Olowogbogboro, Igbehinadun)
Not surprised that yet again, he has turned coat. We predicted this on numerous occasions. He will make a great Politician – cross carpeting is his favourite past time – after abusing and denigrating women and taking money from both Esabod and AJ’s teams. Suddenly, he declared he wanted peace. Like everyone, he is entitled to have peace. However, he is not a loyal person. If truly he wants peace, he should render accounts to both teams and refund any outstanding money. He claims to love his wife, he should put her in the position he put Folashade Olatunji. He should PUBLICLY APOLOGISE to her. If truly he is a man of the cloth (Evangelist or whatever) and wants peace and would not want to wish his own unborn daughter the same fate Folashade experienced, he should do the needful. Soji’s turncoat should serve as a lesson to everyone that where there is a conspiracy, someone will have a change of heart and turn back and leave others. The meal with Bisi Wellington (aka MumHannahMayowa), Dor Dor and Kola Ajetunmoobi in December 2017, was based on conspiracy. Therefore, their union was bound to disintegrate so quickly. Their intentions were definitely not clean, even if one or two had good intentions; someone definitely had an evil agenda. Hence the reason why Dor Dor later founded ‘the real freedom fighter’ group of which she is the only member and has unscrupulously tried to recruit others!
Bisi Wellington (aka MumHannahMayowa) & Omoni Kwame
Time to soft-pedal on the abuses. One cannot be abusing in the morning and afternoon, yet at night, call on spiritualists to pray for the AJ team. It is such a paradox. MHM has brought a lot of laughter to viewers and her willingness to learn is very endearing. There is a huge dilemma to understand her constant need for abuse. At a stage, both she and Kwame might just be constituting nuisance towards the rebranding of the AJ team. If care is not taken, there could be a massive fall out between the duo and the elite within the AJ team.
Kemi Omololu Olunloyo
Advice is to STAY OUT OF FACEBOOK FRACAS! Kemi has had enough of her fair share of troubles. If she is looking for money, it is not at a cost of lowering her reputation to that she would join the AJ team!!!! The people involved in the Facebook fracas are NOT within her social status. She has caused enough embarrassment to her family and friends over the years. Time to retrace her steps and concentrate on seeking ways to reinvent herself.
In conclusion, whilst people are busy fighting themselves and strategizing how to destroy each other diabolically, the likes of Bukky Jesse, Yetty Creamberry, Apeke Ade Enibinuori, Banke Adetoro, Lafunky Akinyemi, et. al. have forgiven each other and busy making money from their various businesses, continued with their live chats and praying for God’s Divine Blessings in all areas of their lives.
Once you are for peace, you do not need to mention it but your behaviour will demonstrate it. Follow the example of Banke Adetoro (who never at anytime responded to abuse from both parties), Esther Funmi Lafunky Akinyemi, Kudirat Adunni Aya Alowonle Yesufu, to mention a few.
With series of incidents from both Omo Aiye (aka AJ team) headed by Abike Tolulope Basirat Olowogaba Adeoye and Omo Ewe (aka Ewe Nation) headed by Esther Tokunbo Ashabi Aboderin – both teams are now unequivocally confirmed BULLIES!!!
NB. We are in NO WAY CONNECTED to any of the personalities fighting on Facebook.
We are constantly watching as the fracas enfolds. As we have repeatedly stated, if no one dies, imprisoned or deported, the fracas will not end. It is their choice to be a casualty or remain peaceful. Neither are we connected to Yoruba Diaspora or any blog on Facebook or Instagram. We are compiling reports which would be useful to the Police Authorities and the Immigration Office in the United Kingdom.
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