Someone once said that fire🔥 is the test of Gold while adversity is the test of great men.
This is true for the story of a daring and confrontational woman, Esabod Olatokunbo Aboderin.
The story of Esabod revealing the atrocities and scandals of prominent Yoruba leaders are talks of the Internet at the moment.
You probably won't argue that in Nigeria unless you're divinely created rebelling against the government and politics leaders means an invitation to face court trials and an early grave.
But have you ever stop to wonder what fuelled the Ireland based business woman to confidently and fearlessly uncover Nigerian leaders wrongdoings.
If that sounds familiar you're in the right place to learn what and how the determined and endurance mother gain unshakeable braveness to be coarse and direct in her commentary.
The summary of her nasty and unpleasant past surfaced on a post shared to her Facebook business page where the writer explains how Esabod's husband mistreated and abandoned her and consequently caused the death of one of her stepdaughter's death.
The unprintable story all started when Prince Niyi Oyewole, Gaddafi as popular known bring forth the identical attitude a hatred husband would show towards his family.
As per the report, Mama Esabod (Esabod herself) narrated that suddenly her husband turns into an abusive spouse and in which she spent years coping and enduring a coercive relationship - hoping it would get better later on.
He would threaten her and severally ends up in domestic violence.
Consequently, the said hardships and more of it make her became isolated, depressed, degraded and stripped off her dignity which left her with no self-worth and self-confidence and eventually became demoralized.
The matter became worse when Gaddafi finally stated he has disowned his own children and their mother.
On the same scoop, the scooper stated how Gaddafi kills his own daughter due to self-interest.
It reads, "Gaddafi initiated the death of his own daughter Abisola Oyewole from another woman by enabling the flagging down of a GoFundMe, Mama Esabod set up on behalf of his sick daughter to solicit for donations from the public, to help pay for her dialysis medical expenses.
Kemi Oluloyo confirmed that Gaddafi the father of Abisola Oyewole told her that the GoFundMe is a scam and should be flagged down. He did this because of the deep rooted hatred he has for mama Esabod, he selfishly put the life of his daughter in danger just because of his problems with Mama Esabod . How can a man be so irresponsible towards the life of his own daughter like that. The innocent girl eventually died as a result of her father’s reckless behaviour and insensitivity. What a shame, and some deluded motherfuckers will sit down listening to his thrash, hailing him for a show of shame, irresponsibility and wickedness towards his own biological children."
Conventionally, this appears to be the typical experience most single mother have encountered in their life but she managed to break out of the norm and survived even better than most who are still with their husbands. (A millionaire)
If an ordinary woman can went through this unpleasant situation and eventually made it to the top (Build flourishing businesses) I doubt she would be overwhelmed by any man.
The Ibadan born determination to be strong and be a successful single mother should be a motivation Nigerian should learn from make Nigeria a better place.
Do you learn something from her sad story?
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