Help! I had anal s3x and started bleeding

My new boyfriend is a bit on the weird side. Initially, it was fun but I realised that I cannot cope anymore. Sometimes, he would ask to dress himself up in my underwear and bra and I considered it really s3xy. At other times, he would dress up in beastly attire that excites and scares me at the same time and he makes love to me like a horse. 


He has an outrageous strength and I enjoyed him all the time. Very recently, he started asking for anal s3x and promised me it would be the best. Love-gone-sour I didn’t like the idea at first but we later had unprotected anal s3x and when I got home, I had blood coming out of my anus when I went to the toilet. Besides, I didn’t like anal s3x one bit.


 He has started nursing the idea of using a whip on me to maximize his ejaculation as according to him, every painful sound I’d make would take him to climax. At one point he suggested us having a threesome and having another man have s3x with me while he watches. Everything is happening too fast for me and I’m beginning to feel cheap like a whore. What should I do with this relationship? Glory, Lagos Dear Glory, The blood is probably coming from a break in the skin. However, bleeding is something you should try to stop from happening during s3x, because it means you’re at higher risk of catching infections. 

Be very gentle during s3x, whether it’s anal or vaginal or oral. The anus doesn’t lubricate and so you may decide to use lubricants. You should also protect yourself during s3x to prevent infections spreading between you and your partner. 
And if you have vaginal s3x as well, you need to change the condom between the anus and the vagina to prevent spreading germs from your bottom to your vagina. I suggest you see a doctor for a check up for infections, especially if your boyfriend has had s3x with someone else before you. Also to talk about starting on some contraception to use in case you want to have vaginal s3x. What I don’t understand is why you allow yourself to be subjected to all manner of s3x. Whipping, threesome and what you described as the queer stuff when you said you feel cheap about it. Are you in love with the guy or is the relationship just about sex because from my perception, the guy is not a serious relationship material. 
But be very careful with unprotected s3x especially anal s3x as breaks in the skin can expose you to serious infections. Also be aware that just because you’ve had s3x, you don’t have to do it again if you don’t want to. And you don’t have to do any particular s3x act if you don’t want to . You should always feel absolutely free to say no to anything at any time, regardless of how far you’ve gone in the past or on that occasion. If you have any concerns you can speak confidentially to someone very close to you.