Would you mind your spouse communicating with an ex?

Old flames, they say, die hard, though some people may have contrary opinions. But supposing you’re faced with the reality of having a spouse who is in the habit of communicating with his or her ex-, would you look the other way and allow the past into the present? Would you want your spouse to be friends today with someone with whom they used to be in love? Here’s what some of our celebrities think: No, he should focus on our marriage – Adokiye, Singer Adokiye He should avoid any contact with the ex and focus his time and energy on the new relationship. This arrangement would not be healthy, especially when he’s trying to establish a new, solid relationship with someone else. It’s hard enough building trust in relationships. How much more difficult do you want to make it by speaking to an old beau? He should leave his past behind – Debie Rise, Singer Granted, they may be just friends, but is it worth making his new partner insecure, untrusting, confused and even jealous of their “innocent” relationship? When you have decided to move on and begin anew, you are choosing to leave behind your past and look towards your future. Entering into a new relationship means that you are choosing to look forward and not back. No, I won’t like my spouse communicating with his ex. No, I can’t stand it – Adol, Singer Even though I’m not the jealous type, I still can’t withstand her talking to an ex. It’s something I just can’t take. Old flames burn back – Mercy McJoe, Actress It depends on what they are still talking about. But no, I wouldn’t want them to communicate. Old flames always burn back. It’s always a bad idea for someone to communicate with their ex. The communication serves to prevent the last strings of emotional attachment from being severed and it also serves as a means to quickly re-establish emotional bonds. Yes, as long as there’s trust – Liz Da Silva, Actress Of course, I would allow them communicate. As long as there’s trust between myself and my spouse. It’s no big deal. We’ll be able to maintain relationships with healthy boundaries.